writing some thoughts out-- like, if you grew up in a way wh..
Added 2024-06-06 17:30:04 +0000 UTCwriting some thoughts out-- like, if you grew up in a way where you were trained to monitor and act based on someone else's moods, then your own personality and instincts were not given space, or, "erased"-- this leads to people pleasing, which is actually harmful and manipulative and is a form of lying (as it is not being honest). so the number one job someone of this circumstance has is to learn how to feel their own feelings, then how to manage them, and how to speak on behalf of them. also in my journal i wrote about how I almost swallowed a dead fly in my water glass 🥲
